The bonding between a mom and kids are always special. And when the kids support and help mom in her day to day work mom's don't just walk, they fly high in the sky. And it is always the duty of the mothers to ensure that her kids learn everything from her well.
There are always sayings in most of the Indian house holds, "Men are always men. Boys are always boys." They are born to work and earn and support and it is the women and girls of the family to do the household work, they need not learn any house hold duties. But its time to make them #sharetheload
The question of inequality arises and Ariel asks the moms - Are we teaching our sons what we are teaching our daughters? And here it is how we could help the sons #sharetheload of their mothers.
The myth turned compulsive addictive words of many mothers of previous two gens and that of a few current gen mothers creates lots of issues for the boys when they go out to face the world not just to work but also to study or when they are left alone even at home. The nature andvtendencyvof the kids of anu grnder is to take thier mothers for granted. But one stage of thier life girls are insisted to learn the household chores. But boys are mostly spared.
The few life skills that every individual should learn in life are - cooking, cleaning, washing and general house hold works. In many a families, the mothers in the name of pampering make the boys of the house illiterate of these life skills.
Teaching the boys right from the very young age to do their own work, a 2 year old kid can take its plate and cup and put it in the sink, is a must. And when they grow up it is always better to teach both boys and girls the necessary life skills which will help them to stand strong wherever they are.
And when it comes to washing, my teenage son, who is of great help and support to me along with his sis in most of the house hold works, took the work of loading and running the washing machine as his daily duty right from when he was 10. And its not just that alone he also helps in hanging them dry and places the dresses in respective cupboards once they are folded. Ofcourse he also folds his own clothes whenever he had to. I have never felt that neither my daughter or my son will feel out of place if they had to go on vacation to any of the relatives house. And many a times I have heard thier aunts and grand ma praising them for being so helpful too.
Though he have been helping me for quite some time, rather years, he decided to take this pledge
‘I pledge to #ShareTheLoad in household chores in association with Ariel and BlogAdda‘
There are always sayings in most of the Indian house holds, "Men are always men. Boys are always boys." They are born to work and earn and support and it is the women and girls of the family to do the household work, they need not learn any house hold duties. But its time to make them #sharetheload
The question of inequality arises and Ariel asks the moms - Are we teaching our sons what we are teaching our daughters? And here it is how we could help the sons #sharetheload of their mothers.
The myth turned compulsive addictive words of many mothers of previous two gens and that of a few current gen mothers creates lots of issues for the boys when they go out to face the world not just to work but also to study or when they are left alone even at home. The nature andvtendencyvof the kids of anu grnder is to take thier mothers for granted. But one stage of thier life girls are insisted to learn the household chores. But boys are mostly spared.
The few life skills that every individual should learn in life are - cooking, cleaning, washing and general house hold works. In many a families, the mothers in the name of pampering make the boys of the house illiterate of these life skills.
Teaching the boys right from the very young age to do their own work, a 2 year old kid can take its plate and cup and put it in the sink, is a must. And when they grow up it is always better to teach both boys and girls the necessary life skills which will help them to stand strong wherever they are.
And when it comes to washing, my teenage son, who is of great help and support to me along with his sis in most of the house hold works, took the work of loading and running the washing machine as his daily duty right from when he was 10. And its not just that alone he also helps in hanging them dry and places the dresses in respective cupboards once they are folded. Ofcourse he also folds his own clothes whenever he had to. I have never felt that neither my daughter or my son will feel out of place if they had to go on vacation to any of the relatives house. And many a times I have heard thier aunts and grand ma praising them for being so helpful too.
Though he have been helping me for quite some time, rather years, he decided to take this pledge
‘I pledge to #ShareTheLoad in household chores in association with Ariel and BlogAdda‘
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